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Soft Spot 

The intimate and complex narrative of how disabled people experience romantic love is hard to quantify. Where do we even start to unpack it, and what depictions in popular culture feature true representations of disability experience? Growing up, all the romantic stories that included disabled/chronically ill representation were tragic love stories. Where the disabled person dies by the end of the film, and their role is solely to help the non-disabled person grow and appreciate life more. 


The objective of this quilt is to challenge the accepted narratives of love, vulnerability, desire, sexuality, empathy, and care. Ablest narratives are historically deeply entrenched in conversations of love: the notion that to give and receive love, your ability to do so must be equal. That desirability or worth within the relationship is dependent on perceived hierarchies and power structures, even more so when your carer is also your lover. This artwork brings visibility to the untold love story and creates a homage to all disabled people, establishing that disability isn’t the problem; the lack of representation is!

Installation view, WestSpace - Window Box, Melbourne, 2022.

Photos: Janelle Low

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